Learn to meet, date and sleep with hot and interesting girls
I’ve met many guys.
Guys who are just starting out. They are afraid to go talk to a girl, don’t know how to start a conversation. Girls often don’t stop or “have to go to work” after 10 seconds. Even when they overcome the fear and start talking to girls, they learn the hard truth – it was just the first step. It doesn’t mean girls will start sleeping with them.
And guys who have been trying to learn daygame for some time. They have been learning on their own for months, maybe years. But still aren’t getting laid as often as they wanted and with the quality of girls they like. They keep thinking that once day they will be good. But mostly the improvements over the last few months have been minimal. They still aren’t sleeping with the quality of girls they wanted.
But I’ve also seen guys learn to stop girls, start a conversation in a way that makes the girl forget where she was going, have 10 minute long conversations, get numbers, dates and get laid with beautiful girls.
That is what I teach during infield daygame coaching.
After ending my last relationship in the summer of 2017, I knew I didn’t want anymore relationships.
I knew how to meet girls online, but I didn’t like the quality there. I could seduce girls in my social circle – friends, business events, hobbies, etc. But, as I was getting older, so were the girls in my social circle. I never liked going out to clubs so learning flashy night game was out of the question. That’s how I discovered daygame.
I started going out almost every day to daygame. But it took me 2 weeks of spending 2 hours/day looking for a girl to open to finally overcome my fear and talk to a random girl. But I was dedicated. Once I was on – I was on. I went out for several hours most days. And on my free time I was consuming all of the best content I could find. I found wings, recorded sets and daygamed. A LOT. I had no one to point out my mistakes. So I made a lot of them. I got blown out, number didn’t respond, girls didn’t come on dates. And when they did – I had to go on 3 dates to get laid.
But I kept going out. In autumn. In winter. In spring. I was getting good. I mean – really good. By the next spring I had done 700 sets and had gotten laid with many girls.
I had been exchanging e-mails with the guy I learnt everything from and I accidentally ran into him in Riga. After he heard my story and the results I was getting, he said – your results are top level world wide. You should coach. I said “Maybe one day”, went home and started working on my website the same day.
I thought everyone who was daygaming was getting laid. But the more guys I met, the more I realised – there were so many daygamers, but almost no one was getting laid. I started coaching my first students and understood why most daygamers kept struggling. My approach to game was very structured. Guys didn’t see the mistakes they were making. And even when they did – it was very hard to change the behaviour on their own. I quickly saw the mistakes they were making. And taught them using the same methods I used when being life and business coach for business owners over the last years. And finally – guys who were struggling for a long time started to get laid.
That summer was crazy – non stop daygame, many lays, threesomes, foursomes. And it ended with me being on the largest daygame podcast in the world after which I started receiving requests to coach from all over the world.
Since then I’ve coached guys from USA, Canada, Australia, UK, Germany, Belgium, Italy, Spain, Switzerland, Hong Kong, Israel, Latvia, Estonia. I’ve travelled to coach to different places in Europe, North America and Balkans.
I’ve also worked with the largest Russian dating coaching company.
Since autumn 2019. I’ve left my apartment and been travelling from city to city daygaming, coaching daygame, learning Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and just enjoying life.
Now I’ve slept with over 100 girls – the nice, the bitchy, princess, student, lawyer, doctor, innocent looking and wild party girls. Most of my lays happen on the first date. And I’ve done it all – threesomes, foursomes, BDSM, girls with boyfriends and husbands, good girls, bad girls, party girls, sugar babies – I’ve done it. I don’t teach guys to be nice guys. I teach guys how to do in real life the stuff they watch on questionable websites while using Incognito mode.
I believe in structured daygame learning
When I see any daygame student in action I figure out exactly which part of the daygame interaction isn’t working for him. Usually it’s
- just growing some balls and opening instead of finding reasons not to
- wrong way to stop a girl which freaks the girl out
- boring stacks(cold reading assumptions you make about a girl) after which the girl “has to go”
- too much “fun, entertainer guy” instead of acting like a normal person
- not being able to find the right topic to have an interesting conversation about
- having a nice chit-chat instead of a real conversation which makes the girl want you
- being seen as a “nice guy” not a guy she is gonna fuck
In each set we focus on one problem. As soon as it’s fixed we go to the next one. I’ve found this to be a very fast way to learn. This usually takes client’s daygame to a new level after each session.
Who shouldn’t get coaching with me
Natural “just be yourself” game fans
You can “be yourself” from the start. Or you can learn daygame based on a model that works and THEN drop the training wheels and become a natural. I believe in becoming “a natural” after you’ve achieved good results. Not before.
Chronic nice guys
I don’t teach you how to get a wife tomorrow. If you choose to do so eventually, I’m all for it. But if you want to keep opening doors, bringing chocolate and flowers and believing in “We’re not gonna have sex today” I’m probably not the guy for you.
I used to wing with an amazing dude. His daygame was strong. He could easily get numbers. He could even get girls to his place from street or on the first dates. But he was a nice guy. So the girls almost never slept with him.
One evening, after yet another girl who didn’t sleep with him, we had a long phone conversation. After it he started getting laid non-stop. First date lays, same day lays, club pulls, etc. I didn’t turn him into a bad boy. I just explained what girls actually mean when they act like princesses, say they’re not gonna have sex with you, etc.
I don’t respect when some calls a girl “bitch” or in whatever other disrespectful names. Girls have their reactions. If you don’t like girls, don’t learn daygame. Regardless of whether you’re a nice or a bad guy, you should respect women.
“I’m too old/fat/whatever”
I’ve worked with guys from 18 to over 50. With ripped dudes and guys with beer bellies. Tall, short. I’ve worked with guys who had problems talking to anyone, not just hot girls. I’ve even done a Skype coaching call with a blind guy. What I have learned – age and looks isn’t what gets you laid. Some of the most successful students I’ve had came from the worst “starting position” – belly, not that young, loosing hair, etc. Some of the hardest students to work with have been the good looking guys. Because they expect to instantly get laid and are shocked when they find out they have to learn game too.
Most common questions
Can’t I just learn on my own?
Many guys learn daygame on their own. I know a few who have succeeded. I learnt everything by myself. But for every 1 guy who learnt on his own I know around 50-100 guys who keep struggling for months or years, work on their game but don’t seem to get anywhere regardless of how hard they work. And while learning they kept spending many hours in the streets and spending money on dates.
If you go out for 2 hours 3x week, that’s 6x week. That’s 300 hours in a year. Add the time you spend watching, reading and chatting with other daygamers. And dates. That’s A LOT of time with very little results.
And let’s say you go on 1 date a week. That’s 50 dates in a year. If you’re in Western Europe or USA, you probably spend around 50 Eur on a date. That’s 2500 Eur on dates in a year. If you get laid in 1 out of every 5 dates, that’s 250 Eur for each time you get laid.
And all of this is considering you are actually getting numbers, girls are responding and coming out on dates and sleeping with you once in a while.
I don’t know about you. But I would rather learn daygame faster and get laid 1 out of every 2 dates with hotter and more interesting girls(that’s how often good daygamers get laid).
Can’t I just go on 1day bootcamp or get a Skype coaching call?
I’ve worked with many guys. And have met many guys who have been coached before. When I work with someone over Skype, I can fix one small thing in each Skype call. They’re not gonna start getting laid all of a sudden.
Same goes for getting coached for 1 day. I’ve done it in New York City. During one day of coaching we can fix one thing – opening strong, making a girl interested, stopping being a nice guys, making the girl work to actually try to prove she is interesting enough.
To work on all of those things, most students need 3 to 5 days of infield coaching. Some learn it in 3. Others in 5. But I haven’t seen anyone who learnt all of it in 1 day.
Also getting 1 day here, 1 day there and one more sometime later doesn’t work. I’ve tried that as well. Each time we met, we had to re-do at least 1/2 of the previous coaching days work.
The best approach is to learn all at once. In the beginning students keep struggling. Even when they’re doing everything right. But then there is a moment when it “just clicks”. They keep seemingly do the same stop, use the same stacks and tell the same stories – but all of a sudden girls love it. They start getting numbers, dates and lays. But it’s a matter of working on your technique for a few days until in one of the sessions it just starts working. I can’t explain why it is like that. But most students have experienced it.
Why should I work with St. Robert?
When I travel, I meet many daygamers. Every daygamers is a fan of some coach. There are only two things I want to know:
- Who did you learn from?
- How many daygame lays do you have?
A guy can be a fan of some coach but if he isn’t getting laid enough, I don’t care about the coach and his “great” YouTube material. Everyone is a fan of someone. But is he getting laid?
Many daygame coaches are actually in monogamous relationships, even married and with kids. They don’t talk about it publicly but if you dig deep enough you’ll find it. I’m living the lifestyle – still single, still daygaming, still sleeping with 10+ years younger girls.
Also, if someone’s story and results sounds too good to be true – they probably are not true. I’ve heard stories about guys who sleep with 1 out of every 5 girls they open; open 2-sets during the day and have had many same day lay threesomes with these two sets. If it sounds like bullshit – it probably is.
I have spent several years being a life and business coach for business owners, giving seminars and speaking in conferences. I have a lot of experience not just in daygame but in teaching things to very different people. When you read my student’s stories, listen to the podcasts I’ve done with them and my podcasts in general, you’ll realise – I have a very structured approach to daygame and to coaching.
I don’t teach and art. I teach a science. That’s what my students love the most – I can explain very deeply each nuance in a set:
- Why should you stop a girl by running around her no while she is walking towards her?
- why you should use only a certain type of stacks
- why “When i think about <her job> I think about <thing 1>, <thing 2>, <thing 3>” is MUCH worse than “When i think about <her job> I think about three things – <thing 1>, <thing 2>, <thing 3>”
How much daygame can you learn in a few days?
Learning daygame can take a long time if you are doing it on your own. Some guys learn it in a few months. Some don’t learn in after trying for several years.
It’s completely different if you learn it with a daygame coach!
I can’t tell exactly what results to expect from coaching. But I can tell how much guys usually learn in 3-5 days.
Most guys who are starting to learn daygame come for 3 or 5 days of coaching.
When we start, they have huge approach anxiety and can’t even talk to girls yet.
Day 1 - opening
On day 1 we work on stopping girls the right way. To be sure they will not just walk around the student. We work on opening and how to make them listen to you opener and first part of conversation. By the end of first day girls are stopping to talk. And students might even start getting some numbers.
Days 2 and 3
Days 2 and 3 are for learning to have full length 5-10 minute conversations with girls. Almost all students are getting numbers by the end of day 2.
Day 3 is for making sure you can easily open, get girls to hook, have good sets where girls are investing, telling about themselves and asking you questions. Almost all students are getting numbers and dates by the end of day 3.
Days 4 and 5 - date coaching
We spend days 4 and 5 on two things.
If student is already having dates, instead of infield daygame coaching, we do date coaching. I listen to and watch the dates and send instructions what to do over text messages.
If student isn’t having dates on these days we spend our time polishing his daygame and texting skills. Focusing on instant dates. If the student is doing really well – we sometimes drop the training wheels of “lines and techniques” and work on improvising in sets. It helps you become more natural in your daygame, which is what advanced game looks like.
What do my student’s have to say about me?
I have only great things to say about Robert. He is simply an excellent daygame coach, period. I chose to go with the 5 day coaching option. We did three days, then one off, then 2 more days. 2 sessions per day. I did 112 approaches, I got 18 numbers. I’ve been on 3 dates and got 1 lay so far but I’m still texting and setting up dates with chicks right now so those numbers are going to go up.
I had been doing approaches before and read a lot of material from Tom Torero, was following the London Daygame Model. But I was having serious problems with approach anxiety and was very much stuck. I had heard about Robert from Tom’s podcast and I knew he was a no bullshit type of guy and that’s what I needed.
And that’s exactly what I got. Robert is extremely knowledgeable and experienced. All coaching is done in the field. No kumbaya therapy sessions. This is an intense, immersive experience. It will definitely test you mentally and emotionally (physically too, I averaged 25,000 steps per day). But Robert is there to help you. He does a combination of telling you what to do and asking you to explain to him what you did/should have done in sets. This helped me a lot to understand what works and what doesn’t.
The way it goes, you have a mic on you and Robert listens in to the set and after you go back to him and debrief. Then after a couple of approaches you switch the mic, Robert does a set and you listen in (and realize how much better he is than you ????). At the end of it all Robert gives you a breakdown of how you did and what you should do going forward.
Like I said Robert is a no bullshit type of guy. He’s not going to hold your hand and mother you. He’s going to push you and because of this you will see rapid progress over your coaching period. If you really want to get results from daygame and you’re willing to push yourself then I would highly recommend you hire Robert. It could potentially be life changing.
P.S. – If you are loosing your hair like I was this maniac might come at you with a set of clippers. I look like Lex Luthor now ????Mr. M
My interest in Daygame came from a breaking point. I had started seeing a girl and out of the blue she decided to end things. What was most surprising about the breakup was that I clung (hard) and tried to get her to reconsider. The girl was very attractive but beyond that she wasn’t that interesting and our chemistry wasn’t great. But lately I hadn’t been meeting many girls that were both attractive and wanted a relationship rather than something casual. I had been with almost 90 women previously and at this stage just wanted something longer term. It didn’t take me long to conclude that I had low optionality regarding attractive women. I wasn’t meeting enough of them consistently, mostly because I was relying on apps where it’s rare to meet top tier (in looks) women. But living in NYC I come across attractive women all the time. So, I decided I needed to open a new source of meeting attractive women.
Daygame had a lot of appeal. I don’t enjoying going out much at night, so this seemed like a great alternative. It also struck me as incredibly hard, which actually made it attractive. It seemed that if one could successfully daygame it would be a massive achievement, and improve confidence in all areas of life. I researched a number of coaches and right away I became interested in Robert. I liked how candid he was about both successes and failures, and he didn’t look like a Hollywood movie star, where you might wonder if his success was just based on his looks. We had a phone conversation and I decided he was the right coach. Shortly after we booked a training session in Prague.
We started off on a Saturday morning. I had zero daygame experience and hadn’t read or watched any instructional content. I was a blank slate for Robert to mold. Our first focus was the stop and over the next days my success in stopping would come and go. Robert would always ask me why a stop didn’t work, so that I would internalize the learning myself. Whenever you attempt a stop, the girl is making a very quick assessment on a number of vectors, such as “is this a threat?”, “is this person trying to sell me something?”, “is this guy cool enough for me to talk to him?”, etc… But most of that is happening subconsciously and very small differences on how you present yourself can be the difference between her stopping and not. For example, one that made a big difference for me was smiling.
Periodically Robert would do demos. He never had an issue getting girls to stop, even though many attempts weren’t what a newbie should do e.g. Stopping from the side. It really cemented the idea that a lot of what determines a successful stop is your own confidence in the stop. When you’re a beginner, you’ll be less confident in a stop, so details like getting in front, running to get the right energy, speaking loudly, etc… will be more important. But over time those will have less importance if you gain confidence in your stops.
Seeing Robert’s demos also allowed me to witness an end to end interaction because he would almost always end up with a number. His stacks always flowed nicely and he the girls would become fully engaged in the conversation.
Over the next days we continued to practice our sets. As my stops got better I started having longer conversations and learning stacking myself. I also ventured out by myself a couple times because Robert wanted me to see what it would be like to approach without him pointing the girls out. This was incredibly hard for me, and hence another great lesson. On my first outing it took me 5hrs and 28k steps to reach my goal of 10 approaches. I realize how irrational my approach fear is but it can still get the best of me. The next time I did better, doing 8 approaches in 2hrs.
As I started having more conversations and getting more numbers, I started setting up dates. All of my number closes responded to my text messages and I think I could have set up a date with every one of them, had I had more time. Ultimately I ended up going on 3 dates, with 3 22 year olds. I didn’t end up getting any lays from these dates but I felt I could’ve closed things on a second date, which all the girls were interested in. As I was walking home from my third date, I saw a tall girl on her phone outside a bar. I decided to just go for it and opened her. I used all the techniques I had learned in the previous days. I went direct and started stacking. She was on her phone looking to get a cab but soon she got really into the conversation. I told her to come get a last drink for the night and she agreed. And it so happened that I lived a block away and I had some wine. Things escalated quickly and I got the lay, though at the time I didn’t know the concept of gutter game so I didn’t think it had counted.
Over my week in Prague I did 106 approaches and got 11 numbers. It was an amazing experience and Robert gave me all the necessary tools to start on my journey. In my first approach in NYC I was able to get a number. The next ones didn’t go as well, but whenever I did fail at a stop or a close, I can always hear Robert’s voice asking “why didn’t that work?” and I realize what was missing. I can’t speak highly enough of my experience and as Robert as a coach.Salty
Just finished a 3 day coaching session with Robert over the course of 2 weekends in NYC. I got 11 numbers, plus a number + instadate when I gamed alone midweek. More importantly, though, the lessons I learned will push my game to the next level and help me get consistent results.
There are not many people in the world who are great at daygame. Of those, only a certain tiny percentage are good teachers. Of those still, even fewer coach students systematically. Robert’s instruction is extremely practical and actionable – it comes from his own in-field experience as well perceptive analysis of what works and why. He is also a patient teacher – not shying from providing a live demonstration when necessary or explaining concepts in a clear manner. However, there’s no hand-holding – he expects you to push yourself and doesn’t allow you to cut corners. My one regret is not having done coaching much sooner. He is a true professional and it was a privilege being coached by him in the city that never sleeps!Mr. R
I approached Saint Robert for training after witnessing him coaching another student in Riga. Never having been coached before myself Robert was able to quickly highlight and address my sticking points and give me great pointers on how to improve. By the end of the session I felt like my game had gone up a new level. Well worth it the man knows his stuff!Mr. A
This year I had the chance to meet, hangout and do daygame with Roberts for about 3 months while I lived in Riga.
First of all, I gotta say he is one of the top guys in the Baltics I ever met that has a very solid game and consistent results and most importantly the guy that goes out on the streets on a very consistent basis. At the life point at which I met Roberts I already had a pretty advanced cold approach daygame skills but I definitely lacked in having a strong frame and not taking shit from the girl no matter what.
But watching Roberts doing daygame and also later on his texting examples I learned how to be more grounded and keep my frame. Sometimes I would text Roberts for asking why this particular girl is ignoring me or not replying to my texts – and he would give me the true honest advice to go out there and meet more girls so I have more plates to spin and not get needy with any one particular girl. I must thank him for the fact that he once pointed me to approach a girl that later turned out to be a Russian model which I closed in day 2 and he actually gave me great tips on what to do to pull her home. What I also liked about Roberts is that he has a systematic approach to daygame and can easily teach it anyone and anybody can quickly understand that and put into practice.
Moreover, Roberts would never beat around the bush and would always give me honest, no bullshit feedback straight to my eyes if I was being a needy bitch or half assed my approaches with girls.Tadas
3 day daygame bootcampTo work on daygame and texting
- each day 2x2hour infield coaching sessions during peak hours at best locations
- I will push you into sets to help you overcome approach anxiety
- We will work on all part of set – opening, getting a topic, storytelling, feeling free during sets, making girls open up, number closing
- We will work on your texting after you get the numbers
- We will use microphones. I will listen to and watch all your sets to give you more accurate feedback
- Full review on the last day + tasks for you to do after the bootcamp
5 day daygame residentalTo work on daygame, texting and dating
- Everything as in 3-day daygame bootcamp
- When you have dates, instead of spending time on streets, I can go to, listen to and coach you through the dates
- You can choose to take a 1 day break after day 3
- We can do more than 5 days
Daygame mentorshipTo master daygame
- Everything as in 5-day residental
- 3 months(12x) of Skype coaching
- Work with recorded sets after coaching
- I will help you to keep going when “there is too much going on” and you don’t have time/energy to daygame
- We will work on habits necessary to be good at daygame, work-daygame balance, etc
- Review of your texting
- Analysis of your dates